Don't be a secret squirrel!

After watching Love & Hip-Hop when they showed Mashonda had magazines featuring Swiss & Alicia's wedding, a thought came to mind. After our ex move on do we make the situation worse for ourselves? Obviously Mashonda was secret squirreling with those magazines but I feel like being curious (stalking his fb page/twitter) makes the situation worse for ourselves. How can you move on if your still pressed about the ex? You can't move on if your worried about him & his new girl. Looking at pictures of them will only make your heartache worse. I have been in this situation before and I will never be a secret squirrel again(*pause* except if I don't care about him & just want to be nosy). Now I lose all contact with the ex...he gets deleted off of facebook, twitter, & phone. Sometimes you have to be that drastic to get over the pain.

I'm a Loser

So August 9, 20008 my niece/daughter was born. Now she's all grown up & terrible 2. This little girl is my heart. I was looking @ her baby pictures..I cried(yes I really cried)! I miss these days

Play your position

So Love & Hip-Hop debuted tonight. This post is dedicated to Emily(Fabolous gf) because she worked my nerves. She said she's knows Fab will never leave her or their family. But your not allowed to walk the red carpet with him because of his image *side-eye*. Does money really blind women and make them think its okay to be disrespected like that.Then she stated Fab doesn't like her to party because that's not how a mother should act. OKAY but when I read blogs I see him pictured in clubs all the time with other girls. Emily is on a plantation and can't even see it. You can drive the Bentley & live in the house as long as you play your position. Emily sweetie really? It's not ok that no one knows about you.