After watching Love & Hip-Hop when they showed Mashonda had magazines featuring Swiss & Alicia's wedding, a thought came to mind. After our ex move on do we make the situation worse for ourselves? Obviously Mashonda was secret squirreling with those magazines but I feel like being curious (stalking his fb page/twitter) makes the situation worse for ourselves. How can you move on if your still pressed about the ex? You can't move on if your worried about him & his new girl. Looking at pictures of them will only make your heartache worse. I have been in this situation before and I will never be a secret squirrel again(*pause* except if I don't care about him & just want to be nosy). Now I lose all contact with the ex...he gets deleted off of facebook, twitter, & phone. Sometimes you have to be that drastic to get over the pain.
