My true Love is gone

My uncle was the true definiton of a real man. People say this all the time but no one can really compare. To me he was more then a uncle, he was a father to me. The love that he gave me was unconditional. He showed me how to love and how a man should love. If I was to really to get into details it would take me forever to talk about this MAN. A true Man he was. If wasn't for him and Auntie I wouldn't even be typing this. It was them who bought me this laptop. The real man in my life is gone but I must go on. Hopefully I will find someone thats almost measure to him. But until then goodnight my love. Until we meet again Uncle. I love you!

Jealous of your replacement

Why do woman always hate on the next chick. Our favorite line is “Well he could have least gotten someone that looks better then me.” But would you really want to see your ex with someone who looks better then you? 9 times out of 10 she does look better than you(lol let me stop). But seriously why do we take it out on her because we aren’t over the ex. We either want to fight her or find something wrong with her. If the relationship was serious, more then likely she’s just the rebound chick. Even more so, he’s your ex for a reason because of something he or you did. Maybe the relationship just didn’t work out. But don’t take it out on the next girl.

He can have his cake & eat it too.

Woman allow men to do what they do. Men feel its ok to cheat because there are woman willing to cheat with them. I was that woman once before. We were both in iffy relationships and ours was strictly buddy. Him having a girlfriend didn’t bother me until one night we were chillin and she called. He answered the phone while I was sitting right there and this nucca made arrangements to see her later. The whole time he was on the phone with her I was thinking damn, I wouldn’t want anybody to do this to me. Here I was playing the other woman. He was getting his cake and eating to. Before we ended that night I str8 out told him I couldn’t do it. His response was “why, she knows how I am“. *rolls my eyes* I highly doubted that because no real chick would be ok with her man cheating. Unless he’s a rapper or a athlete and those woman fall into a whole another category, Money makes their world go round. Anyway I cut him off after that night.
Playing the second chick is never fun. Unless you’re a real bad bitch and don’t care. But I haven’t reached that status and I do care. I feel like for one I had to respect her I didn’t want to be the one helping her man eff up her world. More importantly I had to have respect for myself. Busting a quick nut is not worth my self-respect. Woman claim they just want to have a “friend” to make them feel good and go on about their day. But believe me its never just sex. Like I said before unless you’re a bad bitch and don’t care. Your feelings will start to get caught up. Take Steve McNair for an example. He had a wife, side chick and a jumpoff. His side chick ended up killing him because he had a jumpoff. Her feelings got caught up and she went crazy. He was being greedy having three woman. As long as there are woman out there willing to cheat with dudes then the dudes will keep on cheating.