He can have his cake & eat it too.

Woman allow men to do what they do. Men feel its ok to cheat because there are woman willing to cheat with them. I was that woman once before. We were both in iffy relationships and ours was strictly buddy. Him having a girlfriend didn’t bother me until one night we were chillin and she called. He answered the phone while I was sitting right there and this nucca made arrangements to see her later. The whole time he was on the phone with her I was thinking damn, I wouldn’t want anybody to do this to me. Here I was playing the other woman. He was getting his cake and eating to. Before we ended that night I str8 out told him I couldn’t do it. His response was “why, she knows how I am“. *rolls my eyes* I highly doubted that because no real chick would be ok with her man cheating. Unless he’s a rapper or a athlete and those woman fall into a whole another category, Money makes their world go round. Anyway I cut him off after that night.
Playing the second chick is never fun. Unless you’re a real bad bitch and don’t care. But I haven’t reached that status and I do care. I feel like for one I had to respect her I didn’t want to be the one helping her man eff up her world. More importantly I had to have respect for myself. Busting a quick nut is not worth my self-respect. Woman claim they just want to have a “friend” to make them feel good and go on about their day. But believe me its never just sex. Like I said before unless you’re a bad bitch and don’t care. Your feelings will start to get caught up. Take Steve McNair for an example. He had a wife, side chick and a jumpoff. His side chick ended up killing him because he had a jumpoff. Her feelings got caught up and she went crazy. He was being greedy having three woman. As long as there are woman out there willing to cheat with dudes then the dudes will keep on cheating.