Don't be a secret squirrel!

After watching Love & Hip-Hop when they showed Mashonda had magazines featuring Swiss & Alicia's wedding, a thought came to mind. After our ex move on do we make the situation worse for ourselves? Obviously Mashonda was secret squirreling with those magazines but I feel like being curious (stalking his fb page/twitter) makes the situation worse for ourselves. How can you move on if your still pressed about the ex? You can't move on if your worried about him & his new girl. Looking at pictures of them will only make your heartache worse. I have been in this situation before and I will never be a secret squirrel again(*pause* except if I don't care about him & just want to be nosy). Now I lose all contact with the ex...he gets deleted off of facebook, twitter, & phone. Sometimes you have to be that drastic to get over the pain.

I'm a Loser

So August 9, 20008 my niece/daughter was born. Now she's all grown up & terrible 2. This little girl is my heart. I was looking @ her baby pictures..I cried(yes I really cried)! I miss these days

Play your position

So Love & Hip-Hop debuted tonight. This post is dedicated to Emily(Fabolous gf) because she worked my nerves. She said she's knows Fab will never leave her or their family. But your not allowed to walk the red carpet with him because of his image *side-eye*. Does money really blind women and make them think its okay to be disrespected like that.Then she stated Fab doesn't like her to party because that's not how a mother should act. OKAY but when I read blogs I see him pictured in clubs all the time with other girls. Emily is on a plantation and can't even see it. You can drive the Bentley & live in the house as long as you play your position. Emily sweetie really? It's not ok that no one knows about you.

Fed Up forreal

OMG! I have not posted in here in so long, its been longer than a year. But I need to blog more often to let my frustrations out. One frustration is guys....ugh! I hate them & the topic of them. I've decided that I don't do relationships. I feel like everyone is playing a game & its survival of the fitess. Like why can't I find a REAL guy. Funny, cool, swag, laid-back, just a chill person all around. I hate going on dates because I feel like it's an interview. Then after the date its back to his house #pause! Some guys don't even try & front like they want to wine and dine u. Its straight to his crib & that's it..smh thats all for now

My true Love is gone

My uncle was the true definiton of a real man. People say this all the time but no one can really compare. To me he was more then a uncle, he was a father to me. The love that he gave me was unconditional. He showed me how to love and how a man should love. If I was to really to get into details it would take me forever to talk about this MAN. A true Man he was. If wasn't for him and Auntie I wouldn't even be typing this. It was them who bought me this laptop. The real man in my life is gone but I must go on. Hopefully I will find someone thats almost measure to him. But until then goodnight my love. Until we meet again Uncle. I love you!

Jealous of your replacement

Why do woman always hate on the next chick. Our favorite line is “Well he could have least gotten someone that looks better then me.” But would you really want to see your ex with someone who looks better then you? 9 times out of 10 she does look better than you(lol let me stop). But seriously why do we take it out on her because we aren’t over the ex. We either want to fight her or find something wrong with her. If the relationship was serious, more then likely she’s just the rebound chick. Even more so, he’s your ex for a reason because of something he or you did. Maybe the relationship just didn’t work out. But don’t take it out on the next girl.